EP 14: You Don’t Fit There Anymore

Today’s title might hit closer to home than you expect: “You Don’t Fit There Anymore.”

This episode is about growth….the kind that quietly changes you until the spaces, people, and roles that once felt right… no longer do. It’s about recognizing when you’ve outgrown something, even if it’s uncomfortable, even if it’s hard to let go.

If you’ve been feeling out of place, stuck between who you were and who you’re becoming, this conversation is for you. Let’s get into it.

Transcript

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What's up, my beautiful soul tribe? Welcome back to the permission activated podcast. And I am your host, Coach Ty, empowering you to tap into your inner power and exert it in every part of your life. Also, here to remind you that you don't need nobody's permission but your own because God has already called you forth. Let's jump right into this word. So this is gonna be a spontaneous word that just dropped in my spirit, and God said, drop it now on the podcast. So I'm gonna be obedient to the spirit because somebody out there needs to know this, needs to understand this, needs to be reminded of this. This is why it is so important for us to move when God says to move and shift and do when he calls us to do something, because you never know who's connected to the word. You never know what that word is going to do in somebody's life. It literally can shift them down a new path, it literally can save their life. So if God is calling you to do something, step out. That's another side word for somebody. Today's episode is called You Don't Fit There Anymore. You don't fit there anymore, beloved. God has been calling you to come out because you have outgrown that space, that place, that pond. You supposed to be out in the ocean swimming and you still trying to stay in that little pond that you have outgrown. You supposed to be wearing a size 10 shoe and you still trying to squeeze your spiritual foot into a size 8. I like to use a lot of parables because I'm a visual person. But God is saying you've outgrown the situation. Now, this is a very specific word. This could be a past, present, or future word. Maybe you haven't gotten to this place yet, but it's coming up. So God is giving you a word beforehand, or maybe you're in it right now and God is giving you confirmation, or maybe you've overstayed your welcome and God is just reminding you again, baby, it's time to move on. So let me tell you what happens when you begin to outgrow a situation, circumstance, people, person, or season. It becomes spiritually stale, it begins to have a spiritual stench. What happens to milk when it spoils? You get that odor, you get it's just gross. And so that's what starts to happen spiritually when you overstay situations and circumstances. And so if you're wondering why you're dealing with thoughtfulness or depression or sadness or irritation, or you can't spiritually or creatively hear clearly, your inspiration is not where it normally is. That's what happens. Those are some of the spiritual, mental, and emotional symptoms of something being spiritually spoiled. And for some of you, you're still at that job that God has been calling you to leave for the past two, three, four, five years because He's called you an entrepreneur, he's called you a business owner. So for some of you, you just need to take the leap of faith and just step out on faith. Now, how are you going to shake up and shift this energy? You have to get around new people, you have to start having new conversations, you have to get new hobbies. Hobbies are a great way to put yourself in new environments to shift and change and transform your brain chemistry, to create new neural patterns, and to just begin and start to evolve into a new person and just make and build new connections that are going to be more in alignment with your future self. Here's some ideas pottery class, cooking classes, take some tennis classes, join a bike club, a running club. There is a club out there for any and everything that you guys will want to do. I promise you. A great site that you can go to is meetup.com. I know it sounds like a dating site, but it's not a dating site. It's a social site for you to pick up a hobby or go have fun and meet some new people and do things that you love. Eventbrite is great too. And so there are many sources out there that you guys can plug into to figure out what is happening in your city. But some of you need to shift, need to move, need to change because you have outgrown the situation that you are in. This is why you feel spiritually uncomfortable. This is why you've been moodier. This is why you haven't been feeling the best, because your spirit is being suppressed. So this is gonna be short, sweet, and straight to the point. It's time for you to shift, it's time for you to get moving, it's time for you to release and let go because no matter how much you try to hold on to something that is too small, you're not gonna be able to fit into it again. Your baby clothes from when you were five, 10 years old, you can't fit in them clothes no more. You've outgrown them. So there are some situations and circumstances in your life where it's for a 10-year-old or for a 12-year-old, and you a full whole grown adult. You cannot fit in them clothes no more. And so you have to look at life, every aspect of life the same exact way. There are some spaces, places, and situations and circumstances you are not going to be able to align with anymore. You are not going to be able to entertain, to wear, to connect with anymore because it's just time to move on. And listen, that's a beautiful thing because it means that you're growing, it means that you're evolving. You should always be meeting new people, different people, having new experiences. ChatGPT or Claude AI it asked them, okay, what are what are 25 things that I could do in my city to have new experiences? And I promise you, they gonna, Chat GPT and Claude are gonna hook you up. So it's no excuse to staying in the same place. I'm super excited for you guys because God has so much in store for you, but you have to move into it. Like I literally can feel in my spirit the abundance, the peace, the happiness, the love, the breakthrough, the new income, everything that God has for you that you've been wanting, but you can't get it if you're staying in the same place. So I want to encourage you to give yourself permission to move, to step out on faith, to do something different. I want to encourage you to do at least three different things this week. At least three different things. Just shake up your own life. Just give yourself permission to change. Give yourself permission to be happy because you deserve to be happy. You do not deserve to be in situations where you're suffering, where you have to explain yourself, you have to consistently validate yourself, and you're around people who don't see you for who you are. They don't see your value because they don't have eyes to see and ears to hear because they're not your people, it's not your tribe. I cannot tell you how many times I have met strangers on the street, have only known me for five seconds, and they immediately see who I am as a person. They see my spirit, they see my heart, and they can tell me things about myself that there's no way that they should know because they just met me versus people that I've known for years. You know what I'm saying? You gotta get around the right people because the right people will immediately recognize you, honor you, especially if you're a high energy person. Do you understand how valuable high energy people are? If you are a high energy person, you especially need to be in the right environments. Because if you're not, it will breed jealousy. I'm trying to tell you, you gotta understand high energy, it's a very unique life force. Everybody does not have it, but you wanna be around people who celebrate it because they understand it, they get it, and they understand how valuable, potent, and powerful it is. So, again, for some of you guys, you've had to shrink yourself because you have a big personality, you have a big voice, you have high energy that's potent. And around the wrong people, they will try to snuff your light out, dim your light, take your light out. So you gotta be careful with that. So I'm just praying that God will lead you to your tribe, to the right people, to the right situations, circumstances, to the right environments where you can thrive and not survive. Some of you guys have been just surviving in your environments instead of thriving. And God is saying, No, I have called you to be in a season of thriving. So I'm praying right now, in the name of the Lord, that you have the strength and the courage and the boldness to take the leap of faith, to do something different, to leave what you need to leave behind. And I'm praying that this word finds every single person that it needs to find at the divine time and hour. I love you guys so much. Thank you for hanging out with me. Share this message with somebody you know needs to be encouraged. And I will see you guys in the next episode.